At least a car-load lighter…

Posted on Jun 07 in Life in Evansville, personal storiesby PrintText Resizer Text Resizer

We spent the weekend camped out in our driveway trying to get rid of stuff at our HOA’s community yard sale. Not only did we have a ton of baby clothes to get rid of but we had also made an effort to pair down our own things again.

It wasn’t great to be up at the butt crack of dawn over the weekend, especially when Everly was actually sleeping and we could have been doing the same.

Saturday was really warm and sunny so it was uncomfortable to be out all morning and part of the afternoon. It was our busiest day though so it was good that we forced ourselves to get through the day.

We set up the pack n play in the shady garage for E to hang out in and we got a fan going in there too. She was a trooper and tolerated the crap weather and boring surroundings just fine.

Sunday we decided we’d sell again even though nobody else on our street was. We had so much crap we just wanted to be rid of. Our signs said Saturday and Sunday 7am-2pm and we were out, set up and ready to go…We knew Sunday morning would be slow because everyone is at church around here.

We figured the church crowd could see our signs and possibly stop by after church was over. We knew the Sunday turnout wouldn’t be a good but we didn’t think it would suck quite as much as it did.

Everyone that did stop remarked about us selling on a Sunday. Some liked the idea very much, others said it was an oddity and some tried to make us feel bad for not being in church ourselves.

We aren’t church people and that is something that has made us odd man out in these parts. People are always trying to get us or Everly to come to church with them and we always politely decline. Being asked to come isn’t the issue though, it is the judgment we get and the reactions people give when we decline that is the issue.

Why is it that just because you do everyone else has to? And don’t people know it is that forceful, judgmental stuff that keeps people away?

Church rant aside, the sale went well. We managed to make some money selling odds and ends and we are now free of quite a bit of stuff. It is kind of a relief too.

The last yard sale we had we opted to Freecycle the leftovers and were very annoyed with the greed and nerve of some people so this time, the stuff we didn’t sell got dropped off at Goodwill.

That didn’t stop the handful of people coming by to scope out what was happening with the leftovers. One lady even got out of her car and approached us but quickly changed her tune.

So now we are a car-load lighter on stuff and we donated to a good cause. We almost have enough room in the garage to pull a car in now. Oh and after dropping off our yard sale left overs we ran in the Goodwill and grabbed several pairs of play pants for Everly to muddy up out in the yard.

She needs to have some thick old denim to crawl around in and keep those legs protected, it needs to be stuff we aren’t worried about staining or tearing up. Been wanting a good pair of overalls for her or something. Ended up getting 8 pairs of pants for like $4 there. Bring on the mud.

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So...what you're saying is you don't want to come to Holy Spirit with me, David and the boys this weekend? Just kidding! We do attend church on a (semi) regular basis but we would never force it upon someone else or look down upon those who don't go. To each his own. Sorry the yard sale wasn't as successful as you hoped. Unfortunately, our neck of the woods isn't that well traveled. I saw a little dress with frogs on it hanging out there and I kept telling David I wanted to buy it. He was like you do realize we have boys right?! I love frogs!

I HATE church people. I judge them for believing in what I consider the equivalent of fairies and unicorns. Common sense people. Be strong! Miss you!

i totally feel you on the church thing. i used to HAVE to go in my previous marriage. sometimes i liked it, sometimes i didn't, but it was never my choice whether i went. i've never been a religious person and to be honest, i just don't feel it. but every once in awhile i would take away something from the sermons. i miss that. but my reason for not joining a church here is because i'm afraid they'll swarm me. church people eat newcomers up. they want to know all about you and ask if you'll participate in all these things and don't understand why you're not there every sunday. i just don't like the pressure. and the judgment. it's so unchristian if you think about it.

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