All aboard! Now deaprting bummer-town…

Posted on Aug 18 in Featured, Job Searching, Life in Evansville, living simply, motivational, parenting, personal growth, wishesby PrintText Resizer Text Resizer

Although we are now entering day two of unemployment, we aren’t crying in our milk or anything. It seems word is spreading to more and more people and everyone is really worried about how we are doing.

On Friday when we were broadsided at the end of the night it was bad times but over the weekend we did much discussing, brainstorming and networking. It’s not “all coming up roses” around here but it not “doom and gloom” either.

Things are uncertain and we don’t have much time to get another gig going but there are several good things that have already come out of all this.

Remember that vacation we were bummed to skip out on when I served up a whopping shitcake to you all? Well now we are enjoying unemployment an extended staycation. Yep, all three of us are home and free to do whatever the heck we want, for the next two months or until new employment comes along.

Remember that life’s priorities talk I shared with ya? Well N’s number one priority was to find a job that makes him happy. When we made the priorities lists we were thinking the job hunt would begin in a year or more… That meant sticking it out in the meantime and dreaming of the future possibilities… Funny how life works huh? Now he gets to go right to the possibilities and skip the dreaming and sticking it out. That is good right?

Other good things include me getting some help and backup in my parenting and homemaking duties. Shoot, I might even have more time and focus for writing on here now! Also, Everly will be getting more time with both her parents and not just her exhausted mommy.

We were joking about another one of our priorities on those lists we drafted. N’s work buddies jokingly call it “OTG” (off the grid), we’ll get to put our sustainable and frugal living to the real test. Can we really sustain ourselves using what resources we already have? You know the giant garden, the stockpiled pantry goods and all that…

On my priority list I was also questioning whether or not I would be able to lead a healthy, sustainable lifestyle when convenience and finances made it difficult. This is our test…

It’s like two weeks ago we drafted this list of life tests that not only related to everything we desired but now it ties those desires with the path we must take to achieve those things. Is that magical or what?

So now we focus on the immediate tasks ahead. Brainstorming job possibilities, keeping a open, positive frame of mind, putting ourselves out there in search of leads, enjoying the beauty of the days ahead, marveling in the apparent destiny of it all and trusting that things will work out just the way they are meant to.

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I have Faith that you guys will get through this. I know as a mom it's hard to sit back an not know what is going to happen, especially if you are a worry wart like me. We are in your situation somewhat right now. We got out of the Navy because Adam had had enough of it and was very unhappy and came out here to FL. No jobs but he can use his G.I Bill and they will pay him to go to school. We are staying with the in-laws right now.
I hope N finds a job that he truley likes. Have you checked into government resources for you guys like WIC and stuff like that?

Oh Talina we are going through the same thing, but as we have moved we don't have any stockpiles. Amazingly, somehow you do get through and live off the bare essentials. You can do it, I know cause we are.

You both have a very healthy perspective/outlook on all of this. I love it! I will be following your progress. You all are in my thoughts.

Hey!!

Wow!! I can't believe N lost his job. I'm sure that was what the Shitcake post was about that I didn't get to read. Scott and I can totally relate. Remember we lost our jobs at the same time and I was 8 weeks pregnant scrambling to find a job before I started showing.

I saw recently on the Today Show where stay at home moms post services they can do around their local town for some quick cash, pick up someone's dry cleaning, alter clothing for someone, house sit, walk dogs etc. Maybe N could do something like that in the mean time until his Dream job comes up. Good luck to you all.

Heather

told when one door shuts another one opens and it is usually better - mostly because of your family's positive and open minds and hearts :-) all will be good :-)

I was just saying, "well, at least they'll be able to live off their own food for awhile!"

kidding aside, i think i can speak for most of us and say nobody gets it. at all. and we're all going to miss him. so much. but i know he will be happier. i've seen him pretty miserable for the past few months and i'm sure this is almost like a breath of fresh air.

as he likes to say, keep fighting the good fight :)

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